The Lo Down: 11/14/25
Behind the scenes & beyond my expectations...
Movies & TV
I went to the most recent Sundays with Sofia at the Cherry Lane Theater - their monthly screening series hosted by Sofia Coppola - and this one felt particularly special. Sofia chose Hearts of Darkness: A Filmmaker’s Apocalypse, a documentary chronicling the BTS making of her father’s film Apocalypse Now, shot largely by her mother during their time filming/living in the Philippines. If you have any interest in how movies actually get made, I cannot recommend this documentary enough. It’s an incredible look into the chaos, artistry, and very real human toll of filmmaking (Martin Sheen even suffered a heart attack on set at only 36!)
After the screening, Sofia sat down for a Q&A with a friend, and it was one of those rare conversations that felt both deeply personal and casually revelatory. She spoke about living in the Philippines from ages 4-6 while the film was being made, how she relates to each of her parents (“I’m my mother on the outside, my father on the inside”), and her mother’s instinct to capture the real, raw, messy stuff - often prioritizing artistry over motherhood, but always within a container of love and mutual respect.
Sofia revealed that her mother, who has since passed, filmed similar documentary-style footage while Sofia was making Marie Antoinette. Sofia said she’s currently editing that project, and I’m personally very much looking forward to seeing that someday.
The moment that stuck with me most was a piece of advice her mother gave her when she was younger and unsure of her path in life: if you feel drawn to certain creative instincts, even if you don’t understand why or where they’re leading, follow them. You never know what they’re preparing you for - but they’re surely guiding you toward something.
Fashion
Not sure what to wear for Thanksgiving? I think I’ve landed on a vintage polka dot mini dress I found while I was in Savannah. My friends that I have Thanksgiving with each year like to lean in with our fashion and go all out, but I know most people lean more cozy and low-key. Still, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be bringing your A-game, so here are 3 perfect outfit ideas if you’re still undecided and need some inspo:
For more of what’s in my closet, what I’m currently obsessing over, shopping guides & more, check out my ShopMy. Looking for some personal style advice? Whether it’s for curating a flawless vacation wardrobe, hunting down the perfect shoes, or finding the best basics for your closet, I’m here to help—just reach out!
Food & Drink
Theodora may be one of the most hyped restaurants in the city right now, but for me…it was just okay. When the bread course (seeded laffa with eggplant & the sourdough with whipped ricotta) is the best part of the meal, it’s not usually a great sign. Everything else was just fine: wood fired cabbage, black cod, prawns. Not exactly worth the crowd that was already lined up around the block at 5PM waiting for a table. If you’re in the neighborhood and can snag a seat, sure - otherwise, skip the frenzy.
Music/Culture
Kaytranada & JUSTICE being on tour together is…a choice! They feel like two entirely different fan bases, but fortunately for me, I love them both - Kaytranada is a regular in my rotation, while JUSTICE is something I only listen to when nostalgia strikes. I’ll never forget stumbling into JUSTICE’s Lollapalooza set back in 2011 and being absolutely floored - it was unlike anything I’d seen. And honestly? This tour’s production may have topped the Tame Impala show I saw a couple of weeks ago. It’s tough to compare, but the staging and lighting were truly on another level. Meanwhile, Kaytranada’s energy remains undefeated and completely infectious.
Current Obsession
I’m a true day-one SLT girl - I’ve literally been going since it opened and since I moved to the city in 2011, back when there was only one location (RIP Midtown). Fitness isn’t something I want to write about much; it’s my personal zen and one of the few parts of my routine I keep just for myself. I ebb and flow with studios and workouts, and I fell off the SLT wagon for a bit, but I’ve been back in the groove lately and I’m genuinely so happy to be reunited.
Also, Jennifer Lawrence mentioned on Las Culturistas last week that she’s obsessed with SLT too. Queen behavior, honestly.
On My Radar
(Begrudgingly on my radar), Meadow Lane finally opens today
Aflalo just opened their first retail space in Soho (56 Greene St, 3rd Floor)
Horse with No Name, a new wine bar in the East Village (under the radar right no with no social media presence!) (223 E. 5th St)
Hilary Duff is going on tour, and I’m so here for it
And there are sales galore happening this weekend…
Not sure who this diva is, but I saw via TikTok she’s having a closet sale today in Soho (12PM-5PM; 324 Grand St)
The Greenpoint Sample Sale/Holiday Market (Saturday 11/15, 11AM-4PM; 810 Humboldt St)
Emily Weiss’ garage sale, also in Brooklyn on Saturday (11AM-3PM; 1 Sidney Place)
Until next week -
xo
Lo
I want people to ask why I’m over dressed on Thanksgiving!
Volunteering now to go to Hillary Duff with you 🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️